Myth Is My Reality

"do not tell her you love her if you are not ready for her to call you at 3 AM freaking out.
do not tell her you love her if you cannot handle her father or mother.
do not tell her you love her if you cannot love her at her worse.
do not tell her you love her if you only crave for her curves, not her mind.
do not tell her you love her if you cannot deal with her mood swings.
do not tell her you love her just to have sex."

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do not tell her you love her. Krystal Gonzalez  (via memoriesrecollected)

"I have a lot of mental health issues, and I could handle them alone, but my Dad makes it impossible. He yells at me and threatens me even though he knows it triggers me. He refuses to help me when I ask him (I.e. When I need help cleaning my room) and then yells even more when I don't do it right. I don't know what to do. And then, after he threatens me and shit, he acts like nothing is wrong. I could be on the ground, crying, and he doesn't even react. And I don't know what to do..."

Asked by Anonymous

mental-health-advice:

Hello,

So, my dad was just like 2 years ago. You are describing him to a tee. He didn’t understand my mental illnesses. The thing that changed him was when I started therapy. He learned a lot about depression, anxiety, BPD, and others. He started to become a lot more understanding and now he is a totally different dad. He helps me rather than hinder me. Do you have someone else who lives with you who knows whats going on? Like a sibling or other parent? I think that with enough understanding, he can change. But if he is anything like mine was, he will need more than you to start to understand. Do you see a therapist? If so, talk about doing a family session with him. If not, I would find a way to get one. I think that will help you and your dad the most. You can talk to a school councilor too. Ill leave some links below that could help you. 

Just know that he probably just doesn’t understand. You could help him to understand in a few different ways. Email him links, find information, etc. Be creative. What he says and does does not define YOU. You define you. And try to not let him invalidate you and what is going on with you. 

How To Ask For Help 
All about how to ask and where to start for getting help.

Different Kinds Of Help 
All about the different kinds of help there are and the people who provide it.

Types Of Therapy  
All about the different kinds of therapy that is available and how it could help.

How Help Helps  
All about stories from people about how getting help has helped them. 

-Jori 

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"Do not mock a pain that you haven’t endured."

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"Give yourself permission to immediately walk away from anything that gives you bad vibes. There is no need to explain or make sense of it. Just trust what you feel."

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convertingtolight:

Mental illnesses aren’t clear cut. Symptoms over lap. Symptoms contradict. Some days are better than others. Some days are worse than others. It can get messy. No matter where you are on the spectrum- your thoughts & feelings are valid. You are precious. You deserve to be listened to. You deserve compassion. Just because X over there is struggling a bit more than you today, it doesn’t make you any less worthy of support.

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Source: How the brain responds to pain.

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zeegaga6:

she didn’t name her self mother monster for no reason she truly care for us as a mother

I have so much respect for this woman.

people honestly dont give her enough credit like, you dont have to like her music but dont hate her

I love her.

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I will always be grateful for how this was depicted in the film.

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Every single day.

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Every single day.

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